I was reading a response to a post on Christ's commandment to love God, love our neighbors and our enemies, and I saw a response that made me shake my head.
It was the "But...." excuse. The reasons why not to live in love, why not to forgive, why not to pray for and bless one's enemy. And I sighed in a bit of sadness, because these are very common objections.
Did Christ tell us to love God and love our neighbors? And did He tell us who those neighbors are?
"The Parable of the Good Samaritan
25 On one occasion an expert in the law stood up to test Jesus. “Teacher,” he asked, “what must I do to inherit eternal life?”
26 “What is written in the Law?” he replied. “How do you read it?”
27 He answered, “‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength and with all your mind’ ; and, ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’”
28 “You have answered correctly,” Jesus replied. “Do this and you will live.”
29 But he wanted to justify himself, so he asked Jesus, “And who is my neighbor?”
30 In reply Jesus said: “A man was going down from Jerusalem to Jericho, when he was attacked by robbers. They stripped him of his clothes, beat him and went away, leaving him half dead. 31 A priest happened to be going down the same road, and when he saw the man, he passed by on the other side. 32 So too, a Levite, when he came to the place and saw him, passed by on the other side. 33 But a Samaritan, as he traveled, came where the man was; and when he saw him, he took pity on him. 34 He went to him and bandaged his wounds, pouring on oil and wine. Then he put the man on his own donkey, brought him to an inn and took care of him. 35 The next day he took out two denarii and gave them to the innkeeper. ‘Look after him,’ he said, ‘and when I return, I will reimburse you for any extra expense you may have.’
36 “Which of these three do you think was a neighbor to the man who fell into the hands of robbers?”
37 The expert in the law replied, “The one who had mercy on him.”
Jesus told him, “Go and do likewise.” Luke 10:25-37
Did Jesus tell us to love our enemies as ourselves?
""You have heard that it was said, 'YOU SHALL LOVE YOUR NEIGHBOR and hate your enemy.' "But I say to you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, so that you may be sons of your Father who is in heaven; for He causes His sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous." Matthew 5:43-45
So, we see in just these passages (and there are more that reiterate these teachings) that Jesus DID tell us to love our God, love our neighbors, and love our enemies.....in pretty clear language.
Most of us, if we claim to believe in God, also claim to love Him. How much we actually do love Him though is shown through our time spent with Him, and by our obedience to His commands. And loving our neighbors (even if we disagree with them on everything under the sun) and loving our enemies ARE commands from Christ Jesus, very God of very God, part of the eternal Triune Godhead.
Some people don't even want to love other Christians, forgetting that Jesus said, "By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another.”John 13:35
So if we love God, we strive to love members of the faith, our neighbors (even the annoying ones) and our enemies.
Period.
No "But...." or "If...." or..."Maybe God really means...."
That doesn't mean we have to always agree with them. That doesn't mean we have to endorse harmful behaviors. It doesn't mean we have to like their choices in politics, causes, food or music, who they care about or what their hobbies are. It doesn't mean we have to stay in abusive situations (we can remove ourselves, and then pray for God to bless them and touch their hearts, praying for them to change and be drawn near to God). It doesn't mean that if we see our enemies hurting or oppressing someone else that we don't step in.
Indeed, on the subject of (a just) war against those who are the aggressors or oppressors, C.S. Lewis wrote: "We may kill if necessary, but we must not hate and enjoy hating. We may punish if necessary, but we must not enjoy it… Even while we kill and punish we must try to feel about the enemy as we feel about ourselves – to wish that he were not so bad, to hope that he may, in this world or another, be cured: in fact, to wish his good. This is what is meant in the Bible by loving him: wishing his good, not feeling fond of him nor saying he is nice when he is not."
The fallen human nature is to hate our enemies, and only bless or help those we like or feel some modicum of compassion for. But God calls us to something higher, He wants us to be more than what we are now.
He wants sons and daughters who will be transformed into showing Christ-like love to those we meet, and if we are truly God's, He will keep working at us, as a potter to the clay, until we are just so. He will not settle for less.
But if we resist, rebel, refuse to submit to His shaping grace upon us, then we show we have not surrendered our hearts unto Christ. We are holding something back, we are choosing to deviate from the straight and narrow path Christ has set for us.
We can all find endless excuses to deliberately not do as God wants us to do, but they all boil down to the same root; we prefer our will over His, and to some extent or another, we think we know better in a given circumstance than God does.
I have had a few occasions in my life where I've encountered people, on a daily to semi-regular basis, who were mean or cruel. And my initial nature, as many who are close to me can tell you, is to want to strike back, but most of the time I pray and struggle and submit to the Biblical teaching of (basically) "kill them with kindness."
"Therefore if thine enemy hunger, feed him; if he thirst, give him drink: for in so doing thou shalt heap coals of fire on his head. Be not overcome of evil, but overcome evil with good." Romans 12:20-21
And you know what? Each time I've dealt with a cruel person the way my all too human and faulty nature tells me to, it has ended badly. Words exchanged that can't be taken back, bridges burned, the whole works. But when I have done as God instructs, and repaid mean comments with kind, and snubs with smiles, over time it has worked wonders. Enemies became friends, breaches were healed, peace was planted.
God's way, as shown to me each of those instances, was, and is, better than mine. So while my lesser self doesn't want to love or pray for my enemies, my higher self, the part God is crafting and renewing, seeks to do His will. While my faulty side may want to walk past a neighbor in need (sometimes just in need of a smile and a friendly word), God prompts me to do more. And when I obey His will, I draw ever closer to Him, and become a better person.
We can tell ourselves all manners of excuses and reasons why not to do what God commands....but if we're looking for ways out of His will, then dare we call ourselves His? And if we are not His....we are lost.
"If you love Me, you will keep My commandments," spoken by Jesus in John 14:15.
So are you seeking to remain within the will of God? To love those He has called us, and commanded us, to love? Or are you just doing your own thing and hoping it all works out?