If we're, as Christians, supposed to (by Biblical standards) be known by our love, by our gentleness, by our meekness of spirit and unattachment to the world, I can see why so many dedicated and devout believers around the world think there are so few Christians in America.

Those values are very underrated and often attacked (by fellow church goers) in the US. When love, respect, kindness, mercy and gentleness are attacked....what is left to embrace?

I refuse to cleave to an angry Christianity, to indulge in name-calling, bitterness of spirit and a faith which renounces the love Christ commanded us to bear for one another.  I'll stick with what Jesus taught.....the other camp can have that tainted nonsense.