Some friends do fail, such as Job's did, but I think sometimes that is because they don't know what to say or do; the situation can be too much for them to relate to, or comfort you in. It often isn't a lack of caring, it is simply a lack of knowing what to do or say....and that awkwardness can drive them away.

In my challenges and struggles, I am thankful for those who just stop in to say hi....even if, and especially even, if that is all they can do. I treasure those who will just sit and understand, or at least try to, and there is no price to high to put on the friends who lift me up in prayer. But I know not everyone can handle the same situations the same way, and I am grateful for however they try and be with me.